Human beings are social creatures. We are created for relationship, both with our Creator and with one another. Our lives are fuller and more meaningful when we are connected to others. While there are many ways to maintain relationships, there is a richness that comes only through physical presence. I think we all learned this lesson during the early days of the pandemic when physical distancing was mandated.
While I knew this to be true, I didn’t know the full extent of my deep desire to be present with others until it actually happened. Certainly I was thankful for FaceTime, Zoom, Duo and phone calls that kept me connected with others. However, the depth of emotion that came with physical presence revealed just how deep the longing to be with others was. There was a profound sweetness as I was able to spend time with my daughters and their families after a pandemic separation.
I don’t believe I’m the only one to have this experience. In fact, as Patty and I have resumed visiting churches in the district, we have discovered a richness of relationship as congregations assembled. There seems to be renewed and heightened anticipation, joy and expectation as congregations come together. Though hard to describe, yet equally difficult to ignore, there is a weightiness (in a good way) in the gathering of the people of God. I believe this is much more than an esprit de corps; it is a deep sense of the Holy Spirit inhabiting the gathering. Even now, after several months of in-person attendance, I am mindful of the gift of being gathered.
Similarly, I will bring a deep sense of joy and anticipation as I drive to Greenville and participate in Annual Conference. The longer I’ve been in ministry, the more I have grown to appreciate the concept of holy conferencing. It has been three years since we last have gathered in person at Annual Conference. I look forward to the hugs and handshakes, as well as the connections and conversations that will be shared. This is a time to be grateful for the gift of friendship and to relish in the support that God provides for us.
So I’m looking forward to being with fellow United Methodists in such a large gathering. I am thankful that we can gather to do the work of the Annual Conference, to worship God as a Wesleyan family and to renew relationships with each other. I hope to see you there.
